Wow, you've got guts going through with that! I avoid any extra openings on myself except for medical shots! Your huge drop in weight is genuinely impressive! Mention to your partner that you'd like piercings in other private spots too, you've earned the chance!
My husband and I had an agreement that if I dropped 100 pounds I could get my nose and daith ear pierced. I ended up losing 160 over five years. He kept the promise in mind even though it slipped my memory. Heading there today if the place is open. Feeling excited yet a bit anxious about finally doing this. Held off until reaching my 50s.