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My Wives Reta Journey

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Summary

How do people handle a spouse who refuses to weigh themselves while using retatrutide or tirzepatide?

The original poster describes starting Reta with his wife in early 2026, noting quick initial progress for both but his wife's ongoing refusal to use the scale, which hid a stall until a dose increase to 12 mg. Replies mention similar stalls on tirzepatide, a doctor's suggestion to cut sugar and switch to low-glycemic foods that produced new loss, and the value of daily weighing or tape measurements instead. The thread shows tracking as a tool but leaves the wife's situation unresolved.

What this discussion establishesStill open

Whether the wife resumed consistent weighing or reversed the recent stall

Nothing here is advice.

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PlainAlder11archiveopening postOct 30

Someone suggested I should write a short account of this. I've brought it up several times already. My wife and I began Reta on 1/2/26. I've dropped 60 pounds and reached maintenance, though this isn't about me. We started at 2 mg and noticed solid appetite control plus getting full quickly. Both of us began losing right away. The difficulty is she refuses to step on the scale at all, saying it feels upsetting and depressing when the number doesn't move. I asked only whether she had lost or gained, not the actual weight. Her shorts and other clothes were getting loose, so things seemed fine. We increased to 10 mg and it looked like nothing was changing, but I didn't comment. In early September I moved her up to 12 mg and she stayed there about five weeks. She finally told me she wasn't losing and might have gained a couple pounds, which was noticeable. I convinced her to weigh first thing in the morning on the same day. She got upset and said she already knows how to weigh herself. This had clearly been happening for some time, but I had no idea because she

KeenFenwick81archiveOct 30

I can relate somewhat. I'm handling my wife's medication. She has been stuck for months at 15 mg of Tirz and won't get on the scale because she knows nothing has changed and finds it embarrassing. She went back to the doctor, who suggested cutting out sugar and switching to low-glycemic foods. That's the same approach I used to drop 80 pounds and keep it off. After eating that way for a week she checked the scale and saw a few more pounds gone. The medication helps, but ultimately it's still calories in versus calories out.

GreyLantern71archiveOct 30

Stacking with Cagri sounds like a reasonable idea. Raising the Tirz dose might also cut down on snacking. Hope things improve for your wife. Would she feel better using a measuring tape instead of the scale? Just a suggestion.

WryFenwick45archiveOct 30

Do you have more than one wife? Not judging.

PlainAlder11archiveOct 30
↳ replying to @WryFenwick45

Not a chance I'd cope with anything beyond a single one. My thoughts race ahead of my hands when typing. Spelling error.

IronKettle95archiveOct 30

Thanks for taking the time to write this up. I know you'll keep us posted. Good story.

BrightSparrow36archiveOct 31

I could share my loseit app graph from the last 5.5 years. You can see very clearly the periods when I stopped weighing myself. Straight up. I really need to weigh every day because it has made me less sensitive to the number and shown me exactly how certain foods or exercise affect the scale in both directions. I also track every calorie. That combination, treating everything like data, has helped me stop seeing my own weight as some kind of personal failure. It is just information I can adjust with my choices.

BlueSignal49archiveOct 31

Any shorter take on it

SteadySparrow75archiveOct 31

That's good B! Solid tale, hoping things turn out how she likes them..... 👍 🙂 ❤️

PlainAlder11archiveOct 31

Thanks, and I'll update when there's more. It was your suggestion. Much appreciated, but she wouldn't try it. Yes, Reta quit working and I added Tirz for a boost. Thanks, and I appreciate the help.

NorthWillow72archiveOct 31
↳ replying to @PlainAlder11

I'm certain she's feeling more driven since it's starting to work. Seeing results really boosts spirits! Nice work staying patient and supporting her!

WryFenwick45archiveOct 31

You really caught me off guard with that remark. I feel exactly the same about steering clear of the scale. The only time I step on one is during a medical visit since they make me do it. Those devices can set off strong reactions in certain people and it's legitimate. This treatment has transformed things for me personally. I began with tiny amounts and increased gradually over weeks until reaching a higher dose that suits me perfectly. It's an ongoing process. Reaching that point means dealing with additional aspects such as facing your reflection. Wishing the best for your spouse. Does she take part in these discussions? There's a welcoming online community geared toward women that's free and filled with helpful folks without the sarcasm found around here.

GreenPebble13archiveOct 31

Two weeks back I began this at a quarter microgram level. The rum stays untouched but my mind registers satisfaction much sooner during a meal.

WarmLantern16archiveOct 31
↳ replying to @BlueSignal49

It seems unkind to talk that way regarding people who face challenges dropping extra pounds.

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