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Evolving personal weight loss goals and when to stop

85 replies58 peopleJul 16, 2026☆ Follow
Summary

how do people set, adjust, and decide when to stop pursuing weight or body composition targets

participants describe goals that shift from initial BMI, clothing size, or past healthy weights toward activity-based targets or body recomposition, often lowering numbers after early milestones once they reassess muscle, appearance, and daily function. many report relying on group support to maintain habits rather than fixed scale numbers, while handling outside comments and mental shifts around new sizes. insurance and medication factors surface as practical constraints alongside sustainability concerns.

What this discussion establishesWhere people disagree

whether to halt at a predetermined weight or continue for lower body fat and visible abs versus prioritizing sustainability with added muscle

Still open

long-term mental adjustment to new body sizes and how to balance tracking without it becoming unsustainable

Nothing here is advice.

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SharpAnchor47archiveopening postJul 16

As a 39 year old woman I'm really wondering what others pick as their target weight and the reason behind picking that exact figure. Does the number matter on its own or is it tied to a clothing size they've always wanted? Any particular achievement they're aiming for? I've been asked the same thing and never know what to say. My own goal is unclear, I just want to look and feel better overall. I've dropped around 170 pounds across ten years and it's been a long process, yet I'm still unsure what final point would feel like enough. Looking forward to everyone's thoughts. Started at 306, now at 135.

NorthWillow72archiveJul 16

At the beginning my target was 185 since I hadn't seen that number since college and it seemed like a big win. Once the results started showing up I shifted the target to a normal BMI range and brought it down to 164. Reached it after seven months and this whole thing is great.

SharpAnchor47archiveJul 16

Nice work, that's awesome. Keep the momentum going.

SteadySignal69archiveJul 16

I began all of this to clear up fatty liver and get more energy during the day. As the pounds came off I also started aiming for a normal healthy BMI again, so that's what I'm going for now.

PlainKettle39archiveJul 16

The first target is 199.9 to hit onederland. After that I'm not sure yet. That weight would match what I was back in middle school thirty three years ago.

SteadySparrow75archiveJul 16
↳ replying to @PlainKettle39

My milestone was hitting 200 but I knew I wanted to stay below that for good so the scale would never go over 200 again. Right now I'm at 196 and 185 feels like a solid spot.

ClearLantern70archiveJul 16

I never set a strict target weight, just somewhere near 200. I'll mostly go by how I feel and maybe a bit by how I look. I'm pretty thick so being skinny probably wouldn't suit me.

SteadyLedger60archiveJul 16

165 pounds. That lands me in the middle to upper part of a healthy body fat percentage around 17 percent. Still have 13 or 14 pounds to go at a slow pace.

IronHarbour22archiveJul 16

I know I look and feel good at 185 and under so I'm not sure where I'll finally land. Probably somewhere in the mid 170s. Currently at 195 so getting close.

SharpAnchor47archiveJul 16
↳ replying to @ClearLantern70

I'm sure you'll look as good as you feel.

SharpAnchor47archiveJul 16
↳ replying to @SteadySparrow75

I get that feeling. My first target was getting under 300 then 250. Once I dropped below 200 I told myself I'd never be that person again.

SharpAnchor47archiveJul 16
↳ replying to @SteadyLedger60

I'd really like to know my body fat percentage and what the right range should be. Solid idea.

RustBeacon82archiveJul 16

My first target was 120 because of a family event and it seemed reachable. I hit it the day before the event. Then the final target became 110 to sit right in the middle of the BMI range for my height. Now I'm just figuring out maintenance and this morning I'm at 108.

AmberCinder18archiveJul 16

I used a BMI calculator and kept trying different numbers until I moved from obese into just overweight and that became my first target. I'm still working toward it but I don't plan to stop there, I want to keep going. I just needed something to aim at first.

LevelAlder29archiveJul 16

Good question, I enjoy seeing what others say. I have several targets. I'm tall at 5'8 with even hourglass proportions and thick bones so a very lean look isn't my direction but the frame helps carry weight nicely. First target is looking firm and thicc which happens around 223. That's when I really start feeling good about myself and can wear straight sizes. 192 is the final target where I fit size 8-10 dresses and most knee length boots while still keeping some curves. 162 is a super dream target but I'm not sure I actually want it. It would put me at the top of the healthy BMI range and I'd look very willowy but I haven't been that light since my early twenties and a bit of padding might feel more attractive with age.

ClearMeadow73archiveJul 16

I first set a target of 70 kg. I've been at 60 kg before and it didn't feel sustainable so 70 kg seemed healthy for me. While on prescription the doctor suggested moving the target to 68 kg to allow for some regain after stopping. They were wrong though because I hit the goal and still wasn't satisfied.

IronLantern24archiveJul 16

My goal weight was 165 because that was the lowest I reached as an adult. At 5'9 and being big framed that sits in the normal BMI range. Now that I've hit it I'm going to see how low I can go without looking or feeling unhealthy.

SteadyTimber49archiveJul 16

As a 44-year-old woman standing five foot four, I began with a target of one hundred seventy pounds. That number represented my previous low point in adulthood, so it appeared attainable, and I also set a more daring objective of one hundred fifty. Those milestones came quickly, after which I continued shifting my targets downward. Now weighing one hundred thirty-five, my aim is one hundred thirty to feel at ease in size six bottoms.

GreyFenwick31archiveJul 16

After my first kid left for college I was a healthy fit woman but then I started eating more and moving less. That pattern kept going with menopause and an injury that set back fitness. Around the same time my husband gained weight and ended up diabetic. He got prescribed meds that insurance covered but I didn't. I wanted to do this alongside him so I went the compounded route through a doctor I know. Not sure what my goal is or how fast to increase the dose. Seeing others go slower makes sense and seems like an advantage of compounded. I'd like to lose about 25 pounds.

KeenKettle50archiveJul 16

200 pounds for now. Only 43 pounds left.

IronTimber44archiveJul 16

This is a good question. At first I wanted to reach a BMI that was overweight instead of obese. After getting there and taking a few months off I reset the target to lose another 10 kg. This is more about confidence and getting rid of the spare tire at my waist. I'd like to take my shirt off at the beach without feeling self conscious. At 55 I also think about other health problems that come with extra weight. I've already stopped all meds for an arthritic knee after the first big drop so that's been good too.

NorthWillow72archiveJul 16
↳ replying to @IronTimber44

You're going to have to change your name if you keep losing.

PlainMeadow55archiveJul 16

I want to hit 145 pounds, which equals 66 kilograms, since that was the point where my body felt good and my appearance suited me. Reaching it could push me toward 140, if I ever manage to pay for surgery to take away the extra skin.

RustTimber85archiveJul 16

My goal is 200. I haven't seen that number since I was 18 which was 47 years ago. My lowest adult weight is 230. Currently 250.

ClearQuill84archiveJul 16

I don't have a weight goal. My goal is about body fat percentage. At first I was thinking 12 percent. Since starting in mid April I've dropped from 24 percent to 13.7 percent so my ambitions have grown and now I'm aiming for 10 percent.

ClearWillow31archiveJul 17

I always want to be thinner.

SteadyQuill55archiveJul 17

121. I want to be dead center in the lower half of the healthy BMI range so that if I gain a few pounds while figuring out maintenance I won't feel overweight. I'm not having much success getting all the way there though. Hovering between 126 and 128 and can't seem to move further. I also don't feel strongly enough about the goal right now to push harder.

KeenPebble54archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @ClearQuill84

I also don't have a specific weight goal but rather a body fat percentage target. A recent scan showed me at 32.2 percent body fat. I've just started and my goal for now is around 20 percent.

WryHarbour43archiveJul 17

My initial target was 220 which is right around the line between obese and overweight BMI for me. I picked it because I've yo-yoed a lot as an adult, been below 220 a couple times but usually much higher, and it felt sustainable with clothes that fit reasonably well. I'm now right around 220 and decided to keep going to at least 210. In the past anything below 220 was hard to maintain because I'm not into counting calories or skipping desserts and I'd start slipping back. With the support I have now it's much easier to avoid the unhealthiest choices without tracking everything. So I think I can reach at least 210 and maybe even push down to 200.

BrightBramble77archiveJul 17

My major goal is 99.9 kg because that was my weight when I finished school and started college. Today I reached another goal below 130 kg which was my weight during college when I trained hard and could never get under that mark before. My current weight is the lowest in the past 20 years. The next small goal will be 120 kg.

BrightCompass57archiveJul 17

The actual weight number isn't that important to me since I've always had a high BMI even when lean. My goal is body fat percentage under 10 percent which means I need to go under 250 pounds. Started four weeks ago at 278.8 and now at 273.3. Added in growth hormone at the same time which is causing some water retention. I weight train every day with 21 heavy sets plus an hour of cardio. Only up to 2.6 mg so far.

BlueAlder28archiveJul 17

Back in school I aimed for my graduation weight and hit it faster than expected. That brought back memories of the extra pounds program during my final year at the service school. So I shifted focus to matching my lightest racing days and made it there fairly quickly too. Next I looked at my body mass index when I began this whole thing which was forty and put me in the severely overweight range. The plan became dropping below thirty to leave the obese zone behind. Still working on it but after seven months I'm almost there.

IronCompass33archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @SharpAnchor47 (opening post)

I haven't picked any final target weight yet but instead I focus on hitting certain checkpoints along the way. So far I've reached two of those. The first one meant shedding ten percent from where I started. After that came getting below two hundred pounds. Right now the next checkpoint is leaving the obese range and I'm sitting maybe two pounds short of it though a recent boat trip could have pushed me a little farther back for the moment. Following that I'd like to reach a twenty percent drop from my original weight. Once that's done the goal after would be landing in the normal body mass index range. Beyond those steps it's hard to say what might come next.

BlueMarble65archiveJul 17

I'd like to lose a full half of my original weight but will probably try to maintain at about five to eight pounds more than that.

RustSparrow80archiveJul 17

A long time back I tipped the scales at sixty kilograms yet still possessed a protruding midsection. My chief objective centers on reducing belly fat to arrive back at sixty kilos through body recomposition.

PatientCompass47archiveJul 17

I don't have a particular target in terms of pounds either. At fifty one years old and five feet nine inches tall my present weight sits at one hundred ninety two pounds with fourteen percent body fat. I want to reduce that percentage down to ten just to experience how it feels. After reaching that point the plan is keeping it near twelve percent over the long haul. My weight will likely land somewhere between one hundred seventy and one hundred eighty pounds though it might increase slightly once muscle gets added. I'm not chasing a massive physique only an athletic healthy build. The look I picture resembles a leading man at his peak in action films.

IronHarbour22archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @PatientCompass47

I match the height and weight right now. A bit younger, maybe a couple years. About a decade back I was really fit and knew my way around weights. I once hit 168 pounds at ten percent body fat but it didn't last because I was hungry nonstop. Got visible abs that one summer though. Can't wait to try it again with this special addition.

SlowCompass30archiveJul 17

Never hit 220 pounds or 100 kilos as an adult before. Might drop lower or hold there while adding more lifting. Tough to picture myself at 100 kilos or below, but we're in this long haul so maybe someday.

SharpTimber80archiveJul 17

Haven't really thought about a goal yet. Started at 308 late December and hit 246 this morning. Used to be 200 and in good shape playing high school football, so hoping to get under 200.

BrightCompass57archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @SlowCompass30

Just to clarify, 100kg equals 220lbs not 200lbs. As an adult I've never been under 200lbs myself.

PatientCompass47archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @IronHarbour22

Don't think I'll need to go below 170, probably 175 will work. Already have a visible 6 pack and wearing size 30 jeans. In the end it's just a moment though, focused on long term fitness and health.

SlowCompass30archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @BrightCompass57

Thanks! Freedom units aren't my native way of measuring.

WarmSparrow33archiveJul 17

First goal is just getting under 200. Started losing weight six years ago with intermittent fasting at 396. Did that for two years then ozempic for nearly two until the PAP ended and I regained 40 of the 150 lost. Switched to compounded after a few months, then found this place and grey sources. Now at 230 after being overweight my whole life with lots of yo-yo diets. Peptides have been a lifesaver.

IronHarbour22archiveJul 17
↳ replying to @PatientCompass47

Can always stay around 185-190 and cut for summer. Haven't even considered how much easier that would be with reta or whatever glp1.

LevelTimber64archiveJul 17

First goal is hitting my post-VSG lowest weight, only 2.5 pounds away. Approaching a milestone birthday so not sure what's realistic. Have a number in mind but will see what feels comfortable. Whatever the final number, it leaves 3-4 pounds of room to sort out maintenance. Even without another ounce lost I'm already under half my old weight.

NorthCompass62archiveJul 17

First goal was a nice round number of pounds lost and I reached it. Second goal is based on the weight needed for skydiving.

SlowLantern16archiveJul 18

Male turning 39 soon, 5'4". Started at 215 and began reta about 10 weeks ago. Originally planned to reach 180 then reassess or maybe stop, but today I'm at 182. Early on I realized that goal weight wouldn't be enough. Now thinking 160-170 lean would feel right. Don't want to look like a muscle midget or a tiny runner either. Also learning that cutting and building muscle at the same time work against each other and get complicated.

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